Outside
Same fight. New face. A room that goes quiet when you walk in. A team that manages your mood instead of telling you the truth.
Emotional Damage — a book by Josias Andujar Jr
The shit that still decides
how you talk, stay, and leave.
That’s what it means. Not the day it happened. The rerun. Stay open enough to feel it. Hard enough not to run. 89 pages. No healing-workshop bullshit.
Paperback · 89 pages · ISBN 979-8308361152 · Direct copies are signed and ship from the author. Allow 2–4 weeks in the US. Sound on — watch Little Me below.
You keep calling a pattern “just how I am.” It isn’t.
The problem
You already paid for the damage.
You’re still making payments on the rerun.
Inside
You know something is running the show. You keep renaming it personality so you don’t have to look at it.
The lie
That “fine” is a personality. That if you don’t name it, it stays in the past. It doesn’t. It just gets better at hiding.
What this actually is
Not a repair manual.
A state shift.
Words lose their magic when you keep saying the safe ones. This book does not. You carry this shit — heartbreak, failure, loss, the chaos nobody scheduled. The damage isn’t the defect. Pretending you don’t have any is.
You meet the Little Me you left behind. You use laughter as a tool instead of a hideout. You stop waiting to be fixed and start owning the scar.
- See what’s still deciding for you
- Meet the kid still running the room
- Use humor without using it as armor
- Stay open enough to feel it — hard enough not to fold
“This book isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about realizing you were never broken to begin with.”
The clips
Hear the book. Then meet Little Me.
Two clips. First: what Emotional Damage actually means. Second: the Little Me exercise that opens the speech — same one in the book.
The speech
Emotional Damage
The shit that still decides, speaks, and stays. Listen once. Then decide if you’re done performing.
The exercise
Little Me
The intro from the Emotional Damage speech. Close your eyes. Find the kid still running the room. Ask how they are.
The plan
Three moves. That’s the whole map.
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01
Get the book
Direct from Josias, or Amazon if that’s how you buy things. Either way, start the same day.
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02
Name the pattern
Meet the Little Me. See what still decides, speaks, and stays for you.
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03
Stop letting it drive
The scar stays. Who’s behind the wheel changes. That’s the work.
If you don’t
The rerun keeps airing.
The room stays polite. The relationship keeps the same year with a new cast. You get very good at being “fine.” That shit is a lie.
If you do
The scar is still there. It just isn’t driving.
You catch the pattern mid-sentence. You laugh without flinching. People start telling you the truth again.
The guide
He could manage a goal.
He could not manage a room.
Josias Andujar Jr — Joey, if you’ve heard the show — spent three years and about $20,000 getting to thirty countries before he turned thirty. He came home broke, with nobody to tell, and found the gap the book is about.
Since then: Emotional Damage, 286 episodes of Ruler of Wisdom, and eleven years as a Toastmaster — over 150 clubs in four countries, more than 100 speeches — watching people say the safe thing instead of the true one.
He is not the hero of this page. You are. The book is the tool.
Two ways. No maze.
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$20 includes the signed book and shipping. Josias packs it himself. Allow extra time — this is not Amazon Prime. US copies usually leave within 7–14 days and can take 2–4 weeks to arrive. International takes longer.
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FAQ
What does Emotional Damage mean?
The shit that still decides how you talk, stay, and leave. Not the day it happened. The rerun. The pattern you keep calling personality.
Why is the signed copy $20?
That’s the whole price. Book plus shipping. Josias signs it and sends it himself. Amazon is $11.97 if you want Prime instead of a signature.
Do I get a signed copy?
Yes, if you order direct. Josias signs it before it ships. Want a short note in the front? Put it in the order form.
How long does shipping take?
This is not Amazon. He packs them himself. Plan on 7–14 days before it leaves, then 2–4 weeks to a US address. International takes longer. If you need it this week, use Amazon.
What is the Little Me exercise?
It’s the guided exercise from the book and the opening of the Emotional Damage speech. You go back to a memory from around age five to seven and ask that version of you how they are, and what they want. The Short on this page is the one Josias uses in the intro.
How long is it?
89 pages. Built to be finished, not displayed.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s a book. If you need a clinician, get a clinician. This is a state shift with humor and exercises — not a couch.
Who is it for?
Anyone who keeps living the same year with a new face. Also leaders whose team has learned to manage their mood. If the headline made you flinch and then nod, it’s for you.
Can I just use Amazon?
Yes. The Amazon button is on purpose. Use it.